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There’s a saying that it is important to savour the journey, not the destination. As my graduation day approaches, I find myself reflecting deeply on the path that led me here and what a journey it has been.

When I first arrived at the University

When I first arrived at the ÍÃ×ÓÏÈÉú, I was still very much shaped by the isolation of the pandemic lockdown. Staying at home had made me even more introverted, and I found it difficult to build connections. To make things more daunting, I was in a completely new country with a different culture. But I was determined to make the most out of this experience. ‘And where there is a will, there is always a way’. There are a lot of quotes in this one, so brace yourself.

In my first year, I took two bold steps that laid the foundation for everything that came after: I became an International Student Ambassador and joined the MMA society. These two roles not only pushed me outside of my comfort zone, but also introduced me to people from diverse backgrounds, each with their own stories, cultures, and perspectives. These early connections became the stepping stones of my university life.

"The length of one's days matter less than the love of one's family and friends." – Gerald Ford.

In my second year, these friendships truly flourished. I found a small circle that felt like home away from home. And with the added support from my family, whether through calls, visits, or just encouraging words. That year, I truly began to grow.

Year three was a turning point

Year three was a turning point: my placement year. It was an opportunity that expanded my horizon in more ways than I had imagined. I discovered strengths I didn’t know I had, and I became aware of areas where I still needed to grow. Growth is not linear. It comes from making mistakes, learning from them, and then pushing forward with more purpose than before. That’s what my placement taught me. 

"The only journey is the journey within." – Rainer Maria Rilke.

In my final year

In my final year, I found a sense of purpose in the work I did at the University's pro bono legal clinic - we delivered free legal advice to the community. Having done volunteering throughout my second and third years, I knew how powerful this service could be, not just for those receiving it, but for the person giving it too. This experience allowed me to support those in need, put my knowledge into practice, and develop both professionally and personally. It made me a better legal advisor, student ambassador, and most importantly, a better human being.

From this law degree, I've gained more than academic knowledge. I’ve learned how to argue effectively, listen actively, and analyse deeply. But more than that, I’ve learned the value of integrity, empathy, and persistence. 

If I could give some advice to my first-year self

If I could go back and give some advice to my first-year self I’d say this: it’s okay to feel uncertain. You won’t have all the answers right away. But trust the process. Say yes to new experiences. Make mistakes. Ask for help. And don’t be afraid to be seen trying. The version of you that walks across that graduation stage will be someone you’re proud of.

So here I am, standing at the end of one chapter, ready to begin another. The destination is sweet but the journey, with all its ups and downs, has been the real gift.